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FOCUS ON THE GOOD

      When you focus on the good, the good gets better.   —Abraham Hicks  Today, I woke up with feelings of inadequacy and how I could be doing so much better with my life. I’ve been ill for the past few days and just being in bed at the start of the new year sent a wave of depression  Business is slow, plans are not being pushed into the next call of action  On and on, I engaged my thoughts on things that that caused me to worry  Soon enough, a little thought stroke my mind, "how about all the good, where did you push them to?"  Then, I realised how we can have a train of good events and  just one negative event can hijack our minds and we lose sight of all the positives. This is usually as a result of our brain's negative bias; the tendency to focus more on the negative. We need to overcome this, to have a healthy mind and life. HERE ARE A FEW TIPS ON HOW TO DO THAT: Pay Attention To Your Thoughts: The only way to be aware of your tho...
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HAVING THE ABUNDANCE MINDSET

The influence of money on our lives is strong. It can help us to fulfill our aspirations, support our families, and live the lives we choose. But our potential to succeed financially can be significantly impacted by the way we see money. To be honest, if you’re not born into wealth, there might be some limitations in creating wealth because of how you perceive it.  That’s why I need you to relax your mind and follow through this post with an open mind. In this post, we'll explore why believing in abundance is key to experiencing abundance- and how you can shift your mindset to a more positive one. THE SCARCITY MINDSET The scarcity mindset is the belief that there's a limited amount of money in the world and that it's hard to come by. People with this mindset often feel like they have to compete with others for resources and that there's never enough to go around. This can lead to feelings of fear, anxiety, and stress when it comes to money. THE ABUNDANCE MINDS...

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF TO SUCCEED

  You have to believe in yourself. You need to have the audacity to be great. - Rosie Perez Know that you are not a failure . You have the ability to grow, improve, and be great. You just have to believe in your ability to succeed! Believe in your ability to achieve your goals. .  No talents, training, or resources in the world can help you overcome your worries and doubts about succeeding- unless you believe in yourself. You have to empower yourself by having control over your mind. Your weaknesses will come to play, you’ll have bad days and make a lot of mistakes-   don’t let that be what you always focus on-   it kills your confidence For a good part of my life, I battled with with low self esteem. I struggled to see the good in myself, I struggled to love and embrace myself-  my weakness always took the frontline in my thoughts and I feared I would not get anything much from life. Although I had potentials, I had little or no belief in myself...

TRUST THE PROCESS

“Whatever this unknown path has before you, trust the process.” — Lalah Delia When you are starting a business or pursuing a creative ambition or passion, It won't always be smooth sailing, you need to trust the process. Trusting the process means while you aren’t exactly where you imagined being, you are working your way there- showing up always. It means that even if things may look bad in the current path, it’s not your final destination. Story time: I downloaded this movie last month, the storyline caught my attention- I started to watch it, and the first couple of scenes were boring to me. There and then I regretted dowloading it. I left it and re-watched some other movies I found interesting - I soon got tired seeing some scenes over. I went back to the movie I abandoned and continued watching it. Well, like they say about some movies, the magic is in the middle- I still can’t believe it was the best movie I saw the previous month. On the fifth scene, I was stuck,...

THE POWER OF IMAGINATION

  Begin with the end in mind “To begin with the end in mind means to start with a clear understanding of your destination. It means to know where you’re going so that you better understand where you are now and so that the steps you take are always in the right direction.” — Stephen R. Covey Every single thing in existence today was once just an idea, a thought, a vision. Your imagination gives your motivation and desire form, structure, and action. The imagination is literally the workshop where all of man's ideas are crafted. We need to follow the blueprint our imagination lays before us, to bring vision to reality. Because, In my opinion, imagination has an influence on every aspect of human success. Imagination is more important than knowledge. Creative Imagination is where the genius lives, where possibility for anything lives, the something-from-nothingness. There is so much information to be revealed - from the thoughts we think about ourselves and the stories we...

OVERCOMING YOUR FEARS

  "Fear is the path to the darkside, fear leads to anger.. anger leads to hate.. hate leads to suffering" What is fear, and why does it cause such awful emotions? Although it might be distracting, fear can be a useful tool for achieving your full potential. It gives you the exceptional opportunity to create a priceless inner energy that enriches your life, which can be a satisfying experience. But why does fear, most times have negative impacts on lives? Fear is embedded in every living being.   Everyone experiences fear from time to time. Humans however, suffer from wrong fear; Fear of lack, fear of failure, fear of loss, fear of personality, fear of criticism. Being able to control your fear is the first step to live a complete life. Your whole life is built upon your fear. That tells you what you can do or cannot do and what kind of life that you can have.  Have you come here to experience life or to avoid life?  There are things you could be doing right...

A BETTER LIFE STARTS WITH YOUR THOUGHT.

"Once you start to replace negative thoughts  with positive ones, you'll start having positive results" - Willie Nelson   The mind is the imagining faculty of every human, where you think, feel and choose. When you think, feel, and choose, you create, and this creation is a thought. YOUR   LIFE IS A REFLECTION OF YOUR THOUGHT. Every thought that enters your mind has the potential to change how you feel, how you see the world, your reactions and what actions you choose to take, and all these form your Identity. Your thought patterns and behaviors are formed by what enters your mind through the ear gate, mouth gate and eye gate. It is very important to guard these gates by being careful about what you ear, what you say and what you see. WHAT HAS BEEN YOUR THOUGHT PATTERN? Your early years are where you learn a lot of your thought patterns. While some people are fortunate to have had a good experience, the majority frequently encounter negative messages....